Friday, January 09, 2009

Not another dating website!

Another dating advice website has emerged through advertising on Facebook called "" The site attempts to attract men by making the following claim:

Are You Making These Mistakes With Women?

"The Ten Most Dangerous Mistakes YOU Probably Make With Women- And What To Do About It…"

Here Are The Top Ten Reasons Why Men Fail With Women- And How To Make Sure YOU Avoid Every One Of These Deadly Common Mistakes…

You can go to the site if you want, but I challenge this claim by a making a claim of my own:

"Men don't make mistakes, they make choices."

Sorry ladies if you walk away from a man and think to yourself that he made a big mistake. Wrong. He made a choice.

The site lists the ten mistakes, but they are really not mistakes, they are real and functional methods of vetting companions.

You cannot alter your behavior or use psychology in a way that allows you to pursue someone you find attractive on a shallow level, because you would need to keep it up forever.

That form of deception requires you to divert energy and resources that might ruin you financially, or in ways that you can't even imagine.

So when anyone tries to tell you you are making a mistake, guys, you are not making any mistakes. Always be yourself.